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You built a company from nothing. You can’t figure out why your wife feels alone.

A course for the high-performing married man who’s winning at work and losing at home — and who’s done waiting for a rough patch to fix itself.

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What you can expect

Under five hours of your time. A different marriage in ninety days.

Week 1

Name the pattern

You’ll be able to articulate exactly what you’ve been doing and why — and stop the one behavior costing you the most.

Day 30

She feels the shift

Shorter conflict. Softer evenings. She won’t be able to name why. She’ll just stop bracing when you walk in the room.

Day 90

Marriage as an asset

Not a liability. Not a project. A partnership that protects the life you built — instead of quietly threatening it.

What the course covers

The trait that built your business is quietly costing you your marriage. You haven’t been taught the difference yet.

01

Name the inheritance

The operating system you got from your father — the closing instinct, the fix-first reflex, the I-just. Most men have never been told it has a name, and you can’t change what you can’t see.

02

Read the receipts

The cost you’ve already paid — the dinners she stopped suggesting, the rooms she stopped entering, the things your son only tells the other parent. Quiet, compounding, and almost always invisible until someone walks you through them.

03

Run the rep

Small, precise, repeatable. Not therapy-speak. Not a script. The shape of action that actually changes the temperature in your house — built for a man whose nervous system is allergic to vague advice.

Your guide

Mae Novak

MSW, UNC Chapel Hill
Certified Personal Transformation Coach

Mae works with the man who can close a seven-figure deal on a Sunday night and can’t close the distance with his wife on the same couch fifteen minutes later. Her clinical training lets her go deeper than communication scripts. Her coaching framework skips the therapy-speak high-performing men rightly tune out.

Her work answers a question most men have never been asked out loud: is your marriage, right now, a liability on your life — or the highest-ROI asset you will ever build?